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<font color="green"> Oh, Mouse, you sound terrified. As if you have suddenly realized that, no matter how much you manipulate people you cannot force them to meet your needs. For those of us who are control freaks [and I put myself in that category] this is a dreadful realization. It is also very freeing because I no longer need to accept responsibility for all the wrong in my world.
This push pull iwht your therapist is like a 3 year old, realizing that you are not the center of the world and trying at the same tome to stay in that position. Often anger masks fear for those who are able to feel anger. Accept your anger but look inside and see if there is something more underlying it.
I think people who are able to feel anger can get there faster than those who can’t feel it., anger is so hard for me I almost envy those of you who can get angry. I have to say I think this is a positive thing in the long run for you Miss Mouse. You impress me more and more every post. </font>
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dalila
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-Erma Bombeck
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