I was just pissed off when I wrote that, I don't actually expect him to tone it down.

It does seem very much to me like most girls are attracted to guys who are witty and charismatic. Most girls even admit this. For a while I overlooked it, but I started paying attention to this recently, and I've realized that my brother's personality is exactly what girls are describing as the personality type they like. It's almost like he is following some guide on how to be attractive to girls, but he isn't, this is how he naturally is.

Yesterday I went to a friend's house for a gathering, and there were a few girls there whom I have met before but have barely talked to. My brother came along, and did his usual thing. He barely know most of these people but he was sitting there chatting with everyone around him, joking and making witty comments. At one point he was sitting there talking to this guy about a show, and a girl who was sitting within earshot of him with her back to him was awkwardly turning around and trying to join the conversation. Meanwhile none of the girls even acknowledge my presence. And there is nothing I can do about it! When I try to be outgoing and talkative like him, I end up sounding like a fool. He just knows exactly what to say. Words cannot describe how ****** this makes me feel. It probably goes back to trauma I suffered in my teen years as a result of realizing he is socially superior to me. This is just something I could never accept and I don't think I will ever be able to accept it.