Yes, I understand, my T also shared bits about herself in a context. I think it was nice of her sharing this when you told her about your husband, for me personally struggles can feel a little easier to handle when you here about another persons struggles.
I know my T is single and she also said sheīs fine with that and I just assume she isnīt looking for a partner. But of course, as for everyone else, things like falling in love can happen when you donīt expect it. If I got to know the sheīd found someone, like she was dating and such and also travelling with a new partner I would have had a hard time to process and relate to that. Of course thatīs much because of me and that Iīve become used to seeing her as a single woman.
Did your T ever ask you if you think sexual thoughts about her?
No, I wouldnīt say this bother me, that I sometimes wonder about her sex life, what sheīs done and not. Itīs not something that disturbs therapy, a lot of it is curiosity and partly because my T already shared some stuff about herself even of course not about intimate or sexual relations.
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Just to clarify. My T didn't come right out and disclose the information. I guessed about her divorce and she confirmed it. When we talked about my husband and me, and if I could ever find another partner after he died, she told me. It fit logically into the conversation. I hate when she travels, and I ask where she's going. I asked if she's going with HIM, and she answered me honesty. She wouldn't tell me anything about her sex life of course. I assumed it's a fact.
Does it bother you to think about your T in that way?
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