It was the second. I wanted to speak to the group about mental illness and spirituality, how they interact and mix. Her reception was very negative to this idea. I was told not to talk about that! Well, even after I offered to change the subject she objected to my picture(?). Finally I told her that since I would be a paying member, I saw no reason to change my picture. She told me to leave the group. (not a smart business person, if you ask me). She criticized an email of mine and said I was giving off a "negative vibe"! I personally suspect that she had issues that needed at least a therapist and as closet gays bash openly gay people, she fond her way to bash me. Yay...