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Originally Posted by Ceara1010
I went through a couple of periods where i distanced myself almost completely from my family. Our only contact was an occasional email between myself and my father.
I really can't say if it helped at all or not. It may have helped me to let go of old patterns, so that now I don't "bite" when one of them tries to provoke me. Family relationships can be like a merry-go-round and sometimes you gotta get off before you can look inside you and see what is really going on so you can change whatever it is that needs to change, if anything.
Maybe you can't decide what to do because you aren't ready to cut the ties yet. Can you minimize your contact and see if this helps, first, before you cut them out altogether?
--Ceara1010
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I have. sometimes I want to talk to them and get some answering knowing I'll get hurt in the process and ultimately lied to. they'll say its my fault and not theirs and pin everything on me. my mother especially with become overly emotion thus only making me even angry since my tempermant is unstable and hotter than usual due to it being the summer time. I just want answers, but that's a double edged sword for me because it puts my psychosis into over drive due to being stuck in my thoughts. I want to cut them out but than again I don't since there's still a part of me, that inner child that still yearns for my mother though my more rational self says just to forget she ever exists so its a constant war
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