I would be very upset at this. We are moving to a new room of my Ts house soon and when we went to have a look at it before we move in it was hard. I was OK until we got back inside but then I felt all weird. Just saying that things aren't always as easy as they seem. I thought it would be fine, but it wasn't. Now my T is saying no rush about the move and I trust her to let me take a look, come back and just generally 'transition' at a speed that is right for me. You should be able to trust your T to do right by you.