I think you need to take a step back and look at all of these people you call "friends" from all your posts that you've put up it seems you use the term very loosely calling any person you have had interactions with at one point a "friend" where it seems that some of them at the very least have chosen not to be more than a fellow church member with you.

Is this someone you hang out with, talk about life with, go to parties with or anything? have you or do you now do these things with her? if you have in the past you should analyze at what point things went awry. If never then maybe you are trying too hard to be buddies with someone that isn't interested and that is the reason for the response you got?