that's kind of circular thinking. Blaming them for the way that you are instead of the idea that maybe it's the behavior that's pushing them away. I know it's been said. but people will like you or not like you as they choose, YOU canot make nor should you expect the ones you choose to like and include you. the solution?

BE LIKEABLE
BE SOMEONE THEY WANT TO HANG OUT WITH

Then they will like you, then they will include you. it doesn't work any other way.