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Old Jun 24, 2016, 07:55 PM
Shadix Shadix is offline
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Originally Posted by sophiesmom View Post
Shadix do you think that you are a misogynist?

There isn't any snark here. It might be a kind of jumping off point for you IF you think it applies.

It doesn't necessarily mean that you hate women. It can also mean that you have a prejudice (please understand the definition of this) against women, which you could have developed as a child.

I'm just throwing this out there and it's just a thought and I am not a professional anything. It's an opinion based on what you have said and how you have said it in your past posts.
No, I don't think I am prejudice against women. I don't know what I said that would you give you that impression. I don't think saying that women tend to prefer witty charismatic guys, for example, is prejudice. It is a fact that certain qualities are more attractive to us and that it is based on biology. I have heard tons of women talk about how they prefer guys with witty personalities and based on the amount of attention I get vs my brother, I am inclined to believe it is pretty widespread. That's not to say no women like shy guys, some do. But those would probably be exceptions and not the mainstream.

And either way I don't know how me being a misogynist would be a "jumping off point". It is already clear that what I need is to have relationships with girls. The relationships I've been missing out on all through middle school and high school and college. There is no way around it. There is no other solution. But society does not want to back off and allow me to seek the experiences I need to have. Society wants me to move on and live the life prescribed for people my age. That is a life without meeting young women, without flirting, without hooking up. Society wants to miss out and to be satisfied with missing out. And I will never accept that.