Anyways, the point of this thread was to ask how I can make myself more attractive. The main thing standing in my way is actually the slow processing speed and resulting "ditziness", not introversion. I actually think the reason I tend to be quiet is not because I am naturally introverted, but because whenever I put myself out there I end up looking stupid. But could being an outgoing "ditzy" guy actually be more attractive to women than a quiet guy? Or should I work on not being ditzy before trying to be more outgoing?