I had a situation where a pdoc "guessed". Something happened while talking to him about another family member and I guess he was schooled in DID. I vaguely remember playing dumb about it when he started asking some questions but I am not sure how I handled it in the end because I freaked out so much inside that I guess it made me lose more time.

My t said though that normal people (that I generally deal with) wouldn't know... they don't know (I guess). She feels that had that incident not happened to trigger and if he wasn't knowledgeable about DID, he wouldn't have known. So I guess it was a freak accident for me but it freaked the boogers out of me...

Perhaps she just realized something was going on and did some research or knew enough about DID to wonder. I understand you being uncomfortable. I hope you are feeling better about it now. That's wonderful that she was so accepting.