Sounds like you are trying to cut the apron strings but she's reluctant to let go. Perhaps she's just scared of losing you. Maybe you could have an open conversation about this. Tell her it's creepy that she does this and compromise by agreeing to get coffee or do other small things with her. It doesn't have to be all or nothing.
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