When I'm manic, I come off too strong and scare people too. I was told I was aggressive and that is not me at all. Aggressive is a strong word and should be saved for at least someone who indicates violence.

I have the same conversation style as you. My friend and I talk over each other and laugh about it. Maybe you are talking to the wrong people? You deserve to talk with someone who accepts you. Nobody is perfect and what is the big deal with talking too much? It doesn't annoy everyone.

Good luck in finding the answers and balance you seek.