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Originally Posted by Marylin
Yes I guess in the past I have been expecting perfect behavior from friends and the slightest hint of them making me feel got at I'd end the relationship without giving them a chance,yet we are all human and get it wrong at times.Maybe I did overreact to the sarcasm,I can't talk to her about it cos she denied being sarcastic,but the next time she is sarcastic I will explain how much I hate it see if she stops using it.
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Yes, it's particularly difficult to deal with these types of conflicts when no one ever taught you how to deal with them growing up.
She probably has no idea how she sounds. That's actually common. Sometimes, when people are having these kinds of communication problems, they will record a conversation so each can hear how they sound. The results can be really surprising to them. I've never done it before, but would love to record and evening with my sister so she could hear how she sounds when she talks to me.
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Originally Posted by Marylin
How are you getting on lately Ceara,any luck yet persuading your dad to help fund the security system for dealing with your stalker?
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I'm bit upset today because I had stalker nightmares last night.
Luckily, I take meds for nightmares and although they don't stop the dreams totally, they make it so that when I do have a nightmare, I am not frightened in it. So, I wake up disturbed, but not terrified.
No luck with my dad as he refuses to even discuss the break-ins.
Thanks for asking.
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Originally Posted by Marylin
I have never been to the US Texas is supposed to be a very rich state,how is it like to live there,are you happy living there.
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Yes, Texas doesn't have a lot of business regulations, so there's lots of successful businesses here which keeps the economy strong. I love Texas, but not the city where I'm living, not at all. Nothing good has ever happened to me in this city.
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Originally Posted by Marilyn
how do you get treated in the US if you have no work,no income, do you mind me asking does the government support you or are you left alone to sink or swim,survive or die?
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I'm largely supported by my father, but I get a little money from the government, but just a few hundred dollars and not remotely enough to live on.
--Ceara1010