I think EVERY therapist should talk to a new client about the possibility of strong feelings that a client can develop for a t. It happens all of the time, and is normal, so instead of hiding what we (clients) are experienceing, talking about it is the best solution.....unless of course, the t is a shamer/blamer and ignorant about what can happen. Sadly, too many t's are ignorant and cause more trauma and pain. My t developed feelings for me; too long to go into here. I have a letter I have had for 5 years; must find the courage to give it to him.