Skeezyks…that is a good perspective. Thank you. I think intellectually I knew that answer, even before I posed the question, but maybe I just needed that confirmation/reality check?
I am really struggling with the high level of arousal I am experiencing so frequently lately. In some ways I find it so enjoyable and exhilarating, but in other ways, my urges just don't seem to be consumed lately and as that is happening, my fantasizes and desires seem to be escalating and my resistance and ability to think logically and not act impulsively seems to be lowering. But it is helpful to have people to remind you to be safe. That is my most important goal.