Thanks for replying, Perna. That's a possibility - I guess it's just the way they said "we're all going to watch the rugby" and didn't make it sound like I was included in that or ask if I wanted to come too that's my problem, since I thought I was part of that group.

I guess it probably was a spur of the moment thing, though. I've only been out one night other than the chamber group - I don't even know what the rest of them have been up to, I've barely seen any of them. It's no wonder they didn't think of me, really.
Guess I just need to stop being so antisocial.