If you have not met her IRL (even factoring in the blog), I don't think it's wise to enter her residence despite her request. I think it would be better if she had someone else gather her items from her home. Does she not have anyone?

Also, I was wondering how much stuff she needs? She's recovering from a suicide attempt. Is she medically cleared and now in the psychiatric crisis unit wing? Those are designed for short term stays and there is not a lot you can bring in.

Are you going to go visit her then? Maybe you can just buy a paperback book and a get well card.

So you've been blogging for four years and are both local? But haven't met IRL yet. Just want to make sure I understand.

Visit her if you can to show support, bring a book or blank journal and a card. Someone else should go to her home. IMO. If you'd already met that's different. I think that's the crux of it for me.