(((MOUSE))). I am glad to see that you are taking postive steps in confronting the issues you are having through writing to allow yourself the time and SPACE needed to vent and assure yourself that you are indeed safe from harm from this person. You can also write a letter to the headmistress and tell her how you felt then and how you feel now. (Do not mail the letter of course, unless you get the okay from your therapist). You need closure on this relationship with your headmistress and writing a letter to her can help you realize that you can Finally let go of the hurt and harm you were subjected to as a child in her office, and not having a say then besides holding in all of the feelings that you had at that time that you were not allowed to express in her office and afterwards. Take care (((MOUSE))). Soidhonia .