This was a thread on this site? I did not see it. For god's sakes, the basic arrangement of therapy induces clients into these feelings and desires and impulses. Then when the client expresses such feelings, therapists go into freak-out mode. It's as if they can't see that they and the apparatus of therapy have orchestrated the whole thing.

Get away from the client… how utterly cowardly. The therapist needs to stick around and at least see the client through to some sort of stable place, if that's what the client wants.

Not sure what you mean by 2 basic options. I actually think there are no good options in this scenario. Seems the odds are low of a good outcome, though some seem to get through in one piece. I do not see this whole scenario as fundamentally legitimate. Seems like a very dangerous sort of manipulation and exploitation.