You're living in a war zone and that poor child is caught in it. I suggest family therapy.

My parenting style is totally different. I never even had any discussion about anything like they watched TV when they weren't supposed to. The only times I ever had to enforce restrictions on my kids was when they were doing something that was really hurting them.

It sounds like there is way too much going wrong in your home between the three of you.

I'm not sure if separation/divorce is even the priority. I think help for your family unit and your child should be addressed first.