I've been trying for 8 months to get some kind of family therapy, but my wife doesnt believe there's anything wrong with herself and refuses. She says it's all my child's fault for being disobedient and also mine for being too lenient. It's rather an uphill climb for me. I've spent the past few years wondering if its easier to stay married or get divorced.Lately I'm coming down on the side of it's really going to be better to get separated and divorced.