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Originally Posted by pcosprincess87
Thank you for your story. In couples therapy this last weekend, I was told that expecting him to hold a job and other such activities that are part of being an adult is being too motherly. Apparently. I am expected to just put up with it and deal with him not working and finding himself. With my frustration, I am glad that he will be going home for a little while because it's becoming very frustrating for me. I love him, but I really feel like I am approaching a breaking point for me.
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Did he own up to his issues at all? Or does he act like he's never the one in the wrong? Does he make positive contributions and want to take care of you as you do him? It takes two in a relationship. If he won't own up to his actions that contribute to your problems as a couple and his actions speak volumes (words lose meaning after awhile) - my advice is to leave him and not look back. Thinking of you.