Abstract: The family may be moving to a city and this has me on edge.

Details: My wife got a call last night that the administrator of a hospital network would like her to apply for the assistant position. This will pay ~60-70K and greatly increase our household income.

Complications: She will either have to commute 90 minutes each way or we move. Our boys would end up going to a boarding school if we move, and we'll be further from the coast.

Conclusion: As much as this could benefit us, I am rather torn up about it. I don't want to move farther from the ocean. I don't want to live in a city. I don't want to live where it's horribly hot. (That goes with proximity to the ocean.) I don't want to live where it's flat.

Request: Help me find peace while we are in process on this.