It doesn't seem to me like many women would find a guy unattractive because he is too outgoing. Again, being outgoing only seems to be a problem if the guy comes off as lame or stupid, like I think I do. A witty guy can never be too outgoing.

I am sick of it all to be honest. It is like I have always been destined to lose. No matter how much I grow and change and learn, it is never enough, I always end up being deprived of the attention that my brother and other guys get.