The thing is, some people are bothered by this, some are not. Some people apologize to the next person, some act mean. The T doesn't know what YOUR particular situation and reaction is unless you tell him. Therapy is about getting the guts and building the relationship with your t so that you ARE able to have difficult conversations like this with him. Then, sometime in the future, when it comes time to have a difficult conversation IRL, you / I think, I got this! I've done this before. That's how it's worked for me.