My only immediate family are narcissists two of them my mother and sister they had decided I wasn't useful to them anymore and since I own property worth money that they wanted to get their hands on they decided to drive me to suicide,by making me ill.They did this by entering my house without permission and gaslighting me the last time,and almost succeeded.The time before that they sent me a merry dance again by trashing my home,I endured 35 years of verbal,mental,emotional and psychological violence and cruelty from them.You are only 33,don't let the years go by getting abuse of your family do as pfrog did and I have just done kick them out of your life and don't ever look to bring them back in,you don't need them or if you do you need good physical and emotional health more.