I agree with Raindropvampire, ask for more time, I have gone through this and went back twice over 35ys, however at the moment I am alone again have been for 3 yrs now H and I agreed that with all the yrs together we should work on things from different addresses but stay true to each other, he broke that again, and now I am lost. but there is always hope, just remember one thing if you are going back and hoping that you can change him it doesn't work he has to want to change and respect you for you....I will probably always wait for my H and not move on, i'm old fashioned and vowed till death do us part....take your time look into yourself I'm just starting to learn that now.