It was a mistake to make the title of this post something related to intorversion/extroversion, because that is actually not what this is about at all. I know guys who are very outgoing and talkative, but people can't stand them and girls find them completely unattractive. Being outgoing actually has the opposite effect if the stuff that comes out of your mouth is lame and cliche. And I think that is how I come off when I try to be outgoing and when I talk in general. I actually suspect that many girls are attracted to me physically, but then lose all interest when I open my mouth. I also suspect my true self is a very extroverted person who loves to make jokes and mess around, but I have learned to subconsciously put on this shy, timid personality because whenever I would be my true self, others would not take kindly to it. The shy, timid personality, however, isn't even very effective in keeping me safe, because my lameness still shines through when I decide to open my mouth. My brother seems to just be a quicker thinker, so he knows the right things to say. The more he talks the more attractive he becomes to girls. At least one of my female friends I know basically fell in love with him after he hung out with us once. She was facebooking him and texting him vey aggressively pursuing him and I was oblivious to it until later when he told me. Funny thing, if I had so much as glanced at that girl's sister they would have proably blocked me from all social media and never spoken to me again. Unfortunately this is another problem, that a different set of rules applies to guys and girls. The game is riggged for me to lose. I wish people would just acknowledge this. Instead guys like my brother act like they are winning fairly and squarely and they look down on guys like me.

Sorry I cant get the Quote to work, regardless....

Why are you so hung up on people acknowledging your skewed thinking?

If I agree and say... Shadix ! You are so right !!! Thank you for allowing us to finally understand how wrong we have all been about offering you advice.

Did that help? Noooooooooo of course not.. Because it simple is not the truth.