I'm very conflicted. I have been in my relationship 8 years. He and I have had many ups and downs and now finally in a decent place, yet I just don't care. He's very his way or highway, if u don't like exactly all the same things he does or have the same opinions then its a problem. For eight years I have been trying to get this to stop, I have tried to make him more affectionate , to live together and don't even get me started on marriage. He's not completely bad obviously I'd have left long ago if that was all he was. But now I find myself wanting to leave mostly because I'm bored. I don't care what he does who he's with, I wanna be by myself more than with him. I even dare say I want to sleep with other people, not anyone in particular just something and someone new. But I feel guilty since its been 8 years any advice