I know this is a rant and I know the obvious answers to this non-question...

I really really get frustrated being the only person in my house to see problems that need fixing...

Dumb stuff...like a leaky faucet. Cheap stuff, like clearing out the garage. Expensive stuff like renovation.

Why am I the only one to SEE them? I have tried leaving things hoping someone else will notice and maybe take action to deal with them. I have tried complaining that I seem to be the only one to notice them.

Why am the only one to take initiative? We live together.

I'm so effing tired. I'm so effing sick of being the one to complain. I'm so effing tired of dealing with stuff myself. I'm so effing tired of nobody noticing.