Judging by the way you write you are plenty smart. Plus you said you have college degree, right? I don't know what you do for a living, but it doesn't sound like you clean toilets ( nothing against janitorial jobs but you clearly doing more than that). Blaming you introversion or perceived lack of quick wit isn't going to accomplish much.

I don't know what you mean by coming across as stupid, you don't come across as stupid at all.

But if you do the same thing you do on here such as repeat the same thing on and on or blame others or ask for suggestion but then refuse to listen or speak in absolute and generalizations and stereotypes then perhaps people in real life get annoyed. When you communicate on here you just ignore what others say and just keep repeating same thing. There is no give and take. You might be doing it in real life. You also seem to misunderstand or misinterpret what people say, yet I don't believe it's lack of intelligence ad all. You come across as very intelligent. So I am not sure where this lack of understanding coming from.

I don't think you are lame at all but your thought process is a bit skewed as well as perception of how life and communication works. I believe you can succeed if you seek help.

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