I do most of the work.

I do simple plumbing, some electric, I paint, I repair, I can drywall....I know how to use a mitre saw....I'm really pretty handy. I know how to put things away. I know how to clean things out and donate.
For those things I cannot do, I know how to pick up the phone...

But I'm kinda sick of being the one who SAYS, lets get this and that done...I don't really get putting things in a closet that should have gone to Goodwill....I don't understand ignoring things. I wasn't raised that way. Why do the boring things in life get left until I have a meltdown?? Why do I have to have a meltdown in order for things to change?? Why do I have to appear to be bat-shyt crazy?

"Accept the things you cannot change" does not feel good...



Is there a way to learn NOT to care?