For some reason or other the first thing that came to mind was this poem I remember reading when I was in High School. Here it is:
That’s Not My Job
This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody.
There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.
Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.
Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody’s job.
Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it.
It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have.
It really sucks that you've been put in this position and I'm not surprised you're feeling somewhat frustrated.