You know, that's similar to what I wrote about yesterday. I told T her reasonable response felt lacking. T said, she's conscious that if she says more, I might take that as to intrusive.
Looking at it from that angle, I understand better. I've now let her know, that is not intrusive. T wasnt about to infringe my boundaries. She was respecting my space. Until this conversation, I saw things in a one-way street type of thing. But T takes my boundaries into consideration.
Maybe you corks have a conversation asking this topic too.