I too have noticed it is a pattern on your threads to ignore what others are saying, I also wonder if this something you do in real life.

People of both genders tend to find that a turn off, a person could be telling the funniest stories in the world but if they are not taking on board what others are saying they are unlikely to want to develop further relationship with that person. Communication is more than what we give out, it's how we allow others to engage too.

Communication skills can be learned.