I wanted to add more to my earlier post as i dont feel i told you guys enough for some really in depth advice.

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 yrs he lives in a different state now as he works away so we dont see each other much.

He can be the most amazing man i have ever met and he is the love of my life. However if i have a few beverages and i get a little insecure about things then all that goes out the window and he can get ruff, he has only done this on a few occasions but the last being the worst, he has never actually hit me but many other things. He then says that i need to think about the time line of what just happened and i caused it, which im sure i caused him to get angry.

He then appologises and gets upset at him self and tells me i bring out the best and the worst of him.

Im just so confused because i want to move to be close to him but i dont know if this is a bad idea and should just cut it away now while i can.

PLEASE HELP, i know only i can make up my mind but your help is so good!!

xoxoxox