When I decided to separate from and then divorce my ex-husband who physically, mentally and emotionally abused me, I was extremely traumatized because I loved him with all my heart despite what he did to me. To this day, I don't know what gave me the strength to leave him. Somebody said to me at the time that when my head meets with my heart, I'llknow what to do and be able to do it. I think that is just what happened to me.

I wish you much strength in finding what you should do in your heart and knowing it in your head.