Hello thesnowqueen: Since you posted this Thread yesterday, & you were wondering about what you might do "tomorrow", perhaps the time period for which you were inquiring here has already come-&-gone and you've already done whatever it is you decided to do. If so, I hope it was well received. I would have to say that, personally, I would have recommended you simply let this go at this point. I'm assuming that your therapist's wife has been traumatized by the unexpected loss of her husband. She needs the support of close friends & relatives. And you did already make one very thoughtful gesture. My thinking would have been that it would be best to simply let it go at that. I wish you well...