a year for me this october, too. must be something about october lol. wow. thats amazing to me that you haven't talked to him about his %#@&#! vacation. i always have to let him know (in some way) that i'm not happy about it. either by being annoyed or sad about it or by numbing out so i'm kinda removed from him.

i hate it how i feel like a little kid sometimes.

that being said... being mad or sad about it isn't really talking about it, i guess.