I have a friend that I've known for a couple of years. We used to be close but due to the fact that we're both adults who have responsibilities, we've grown apart. We recently reconnected and talked about experiences we've had since we last talked. I shared with her some information about a rather painful experience which happened late last year and after I was finished telling her about it, she said, plainly: "Wow. I did not realize you were such a slut." I assumed she was joking and started laughing but I quickly realized by the look on her face that she was serious. I was shocked, unsure how to respond, so I changed the subject. From then forward, her demeanor was cold. We parted company not long after that. I assumed we'd never talk again. Well, she texted me about an hour ago, acting like everything was peachy keen. She wants to meet up and having lunch sometime this week.

I want to give this girl another chance, but using the term 'slut', in my opinion, is never acceptable. I do not believe in shaming people, especially for what they do in the bedroom.

What would you do? Would you forgive her and continue on with the friendship? Should I have lunch with her and try to find out why she said what she said? I'm torn between ending the friendship (once upon a time, she was an awesome friend to me) or writing off the incident and forgiving her....