I am indebted to this forum.

@sophiesmom, @Michelea, @Steiner of Thule
thanks for sharing your thoughts. I do feel like divorcing her *** in a jiffy and be done with. However, I shudder how life will be after that. How it will impact my kid and myself. Won't have much to look forward to - have ceased to think beyond my family since sometime now. (feeling weak)

@Strive4health
- she accepts her mistake and seeks forgiveness (why only after getting caught!)
- she has discontinued catching up and communicated these people on these lines. Apparently she is not attached but was just emotionally needy.
- she was sexting and having infrequent physical intercourse with all three (per evidence she ****ed out of marriage like 5-6 times per year across guys)

@Crazy Hitch
I do feel that I have the upper hand and that she wants to stick with me for good. She feels she will totally support in whatever it takes to build up trust again. She has shared the passwords for all the digital mediums that she has been using. Funny thing is that she even gave-in to my idea of physically disabling these guys although she feels it is totally wrong and that we will regret if we do it at all. Guess what - I am capable of doing it and I am going to do it. Mentally ready for consequences that follow.

Where does this all leave me?