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Originally Posted by Luce
"It can happen" ??? What the hey??
That is the lamest response ever. I would be highly annoyed too. To me it sounds like such an idiotic response (like, who would ever say that in response to that question?).
I hope she is reflecting on that comment and mentally kicking herself for being such a complete and utter dufus.
I would be crushed too. I am sorry your T break began on that awful note.
Look after yourself, okay?
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Yeah her response was ****. But I should have known she'd give a non-answer. Thanks.
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Originally Posted by rainyday107
I agree, her reply was lame! If you think about it, she didn't answer your question. She said it could happen - that's common sense. But she didn't tell you if she actually did or not. Ugh
That would have left my head spinning. Was that some type of therapeutic reply? Although it seems she was evasive so how could that help you?
I had a good therapist but there was something he did that bothered me. Sometimes I would ask him a question and he simply wouldn't respond at all. Just looked at me in silence.
Why don't they just answer us or say they don't want to answer?
Hugs to you. Xo
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Of course it was evasive, that's basically her motto. Honestly I just don't care anymore. Thanks.
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Originally Posted by LesFleursDuMal
Actually, I wouldn't be so harsh on her, I think her answer is a very honest one. It makes sense that therapists don't think about us as much as we think about them. I don't see why she should have lied. It would have been worse to make you believe things that are not true. It's not like she said "No, I never ever think about you".
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She actually said: "of course you are less present in my life than I am in yours". Pretty honest. I'm stupid to hope for something more than mild interest.
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Originally Posted by itjustis
I know how you feel about summer break. I'm going through it too. *hugs*
At my last session I said to T "I'm going to miss you" and she replied "I'll miss you too."
She wouldn't lie to make me feel better, at least I keep telling myself that.
The response from your T seems pretty lame. I'm sorry she said it that way.
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Well my T would NEVER say that she misses me. I'm sure she doesn't. She thought being honest was better than to be reassuring. Thanks.