not only is it a bad idea to give in to someone you deem a stalker, it's not right on so many levels

you do not want this woman, you have no desire for her as you imply anyway but you'll let her into your life with the pretense that you're interested so she will find out you're not all she thinks you are? Is that really an honest approach to a bad situation or just piling on deception upon something that is already not a good situation?

I agree that I don't understand how someone could allow anyone to harass them for what, 4 yrs? That's a question I would like to know the answer to also.