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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
It's not about switching off your feelings.
Nobody gets through a break up because they have a magic love switch they get to turn on and off.
We get through them by sheer will and determination.
The feelings fade by themselves after time as you begin to heal.
You torture yourself by holding onto the hurt and thus never allowing any time for these feelings to dissipate.
As vile as this man is, I'm sorry to say it, but you are the one hurting yourself here. You're actively choosing to wait in the wings, and you will keep hurting until you choose differently.
Divine's right, a lil self respect would go a long way in your situation. I really hope you get to that point.
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You are right, but when it comes to learning to love myself more, I don't even know where to start. I guess the rejection has just made me feel so low.
I keep wondering why her and not me? It's not the first time someone has left me and then gone onto marry the next person they meet. I end up thinking it will be like this forever and he'll end up happy and I'll be alone.
I guess I just always thought (and was told by people that know him better than anyone) that he'll always be the same and has commitment issues, so it made me feel better about myself and now maybe it's not him and he'll end up happily married. I know you will all say that I should be happy for him, but I think deep down everyone can admit that it feels a little good to have the last laugh. Especially after how he's been in the past
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