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Originally Posted by black-roses
Well, this guy told everyone my secrets and I never really got over that so now whenever I talk to males I am subconsciously feeling as if they are doing the same thing it really ****ing sucks but I also feel relieved when they ignore me and act like I am invisible it helps with the anxiety I don't like when they talk to me that triggers anxiety. I feel sad for it but then again I am thankful that I don't trust them can you imagine the dangers of trusting them? So, scary...
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You were "burned" once by someone you trusted, and you expect the next man
you meet to do exactly what the last man did. A reaction like that is well
inside the ball park, so to speak. Take all the time you need to work through
this, and chalk that one up to experience. Better luck with your next
friend-who's-a-boy, and here's hoping he does turn out to be boyfriend material.