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Originally Posted by hannabee
Because you have children, I would not be running to divorce court, as it WILL be devastating for them. IDK, you don't say much about her background, family life, how she was treated as child...etc. This is something to consider and explore with a professional. You absolutely have to get to the bottom of the WHY she did this.
So sorry you have to go through this and good luck. Please keep us posted.
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I disagree. what does it say to your children to remain in a relationship where one of the parents is a cheater? Infidelity is ok? I wholeheartedly disagree. separation and/or divorce is far less devastating than people imply when it's fir the right reasons. My boys are fine boys. they are not emotionally torn, they are not broken by any sense of the word and at 14 an 16 yrs old they re doing quite well even after their mother abandoned them for 4 yrs or more to go off with other men.