So at my therapy appointment today we discussed love addiction/codependency. My therapist basically said the way I am loving, isn't love at all. I was a bit shocked, and upset to hear this, but as she explained more it made some sense. I am going through a stressful time with my boyfriend being out of town, and I have learned a lot about myself during this time such as the love addiction/codependency thing. I was wondering if anyone knows of resources/books that talk about love addiction/codependency, or basically how to deal with being the controlling and abusive one in the relationship. Thanks in advance!