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Originally Posted by Bill3
I am sorry that a social worker of all people would fail to understand that anyone, including smart people, can become overwhelmed by unmet emotional needs. And it sounds like people failing to understand happens a lot.
Could you please explain what you mean by changing yourself so as to be understood and then they leave? Or maybe give an example?
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I change myself to be the person I think they would give the most attention to.
Honestly I have no idea who I really am, I just become the person who will benefit me most in the situation, automatically, without making a choice, and then I cause those people to leave when they realize what I was doing was only to get the need met, and they cannot stand my behavior.
Once I realize what I'm doing or actually think about it, its usually too late because then they will know and I risk losing them, so I have to keep going. If I had a "real" Anna to return to, I would, but I don't know who that is.
I'm a female and I've been alive for 23 years, 1 month and 15 days. That is the only "Real" information I can give about myself.