There is no need to continue communication with him. You weren't married and have no kids together and to all honesty it wasn't even truly serious committed relationship, "on and off" kind of sends a message that he always had someone on the side. Plus he is a drunk who can't keep a job and license. Is it really who you want to waste another day of your life on? He just sucks. You don't need to respond to his vile texts. "Hey Madame"? Wtf.

I understand it's hard to forget someone and you need time to grieve but to all honesty your relationship ( if you can call that) is long over. There is absolutely no need to ever talk to him again. You had closure. It is over. Time to heal. Block him and delete his contacts completely

You need a good therapist to help you with this. Please. Just stop with this guy. You just send him message that you aren't to be respected. Block him. Be done. You are better than that.

He contacts you because he knows you get right into it. He will stop when you stop responding.

He isn't any kind of special man. He is a loser

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